My Child’s Journey

1–3 years

Toddler

Toddlers are busy, determined and full of new words. They move from single words to short sentences, from wobbly walking to confident running, and they begin to test what happens when they decide something for themselves. Big feelings are part of this stage, not a problem with it.

Toddler development illustration

Six parts of growing

Development at this stage

Speech and language

Many children at this age begin to put two words together, follow a simple instruction and name familiar people and objects.

Thinking and learning

Many children at this age begin to match objects that belong together, sort by one colour and remember what comes next in a routine.

Fine motor skills

Many children at this age begin to scribble with a chunky crayon, stack blocks and turn thick book pages.

Gross motor skills

Many children at this age begin to run and stop safely, climb low steps and jump with both feet.

Social and emotional

Many children at this age begin to play alongside other children, copy what adults do and name simple feelings.

Independence and daily skills

Many children at this age begin to use a spoon with fewer spills, take off loose clothing and help with a small job.

Practical support

How parents can help

  • Narrate what you are doing and add one word to whatever they say.
  • Offer two safe choices instead of open questions to reduce battles.
  • Allow slow, messy attempts at dressing, pouring and tidying.
  • Name feelings out loud: “You are cross because it stopped.”

Simple ideas

Laundry sorting

Match socks together and talk about colour and size.

Cushion path

Lay cushions out and step, climb and jump along them.

Basket naming game

Unpack shopping together, naming each item slowly.

Milestone collections

Milestones by age band

1y–1y 3m

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1y 3m–1y 6m

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1y 6m–1y 9m

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1y 9m–2y

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2y–2y 3m

6 milestones across six areas

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2y 3m–2y 6m

6 milestones across six areas

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2y 6m–2y 9m

6 milestones across six areas

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2y 9m–3y

6 milestones across six areas

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My Child’s Journey is for learning and inspiration only. Every child grows at their own pace. It does not replace advice from your pediatrician or a qualified specialist — please talk to them with any questions about your child's development.